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Women
peacemakers
By Niti Vishnu
It’s 9 am and 34-year-old Noorjehan Diwan of
Ahmedabad is racing against time. As she finishes work in the kitchen, her mind
is pre-occupied with the day’s schedule. She will join riot-affected people of
2002 to plan for a massive rally to commemorate five years since some of the
worst sectarian violence in
India
’s history.
More than 1,000 people, majority of them
Muslims were killed in the communal violence that erupted after 59 persons, most
of them Hindu religious volunteers who
built the Ram Janambhoomi temple in Ayodhya at the site of the demolished Babri
Mosque, were burnt alive on board S-6 coach of the Sabarmati Express on
February 27, 2002 in Godhra,
Gujarat
.
Five thousand Muslim families who fled
their homes during the riots are still displaced, many living in makeshift
camps, with no rehabilitation package in sight.
"Dange
ko paanch saal pure hoye hai. Rally hai. Aana, (It’s been five years since the
riots. There is a rally. Do come)" she tells riot-affected families in
Guptanagar locality of Juhapura, the largest Muslim ghetto in
Gujarat
.
Riots
changed it all
Noorjehan is one of the many Aman Pathiks
(peace volunteers) working in
Gujarat
since the riots of 2002 with the ActionAid-backed peace collective Aman
Samudaya. Coming from an orthodox Muslim family, Norrojehan, known
affectionately among the riot victims as ‘Munnididi’ had hardly ventured out
of the house. She used to cover her face under veil. But the riots changed it
all.
Soon
after the riots broke out she got to hear the heart-wrenching stories of
survivors living in Juhapura relief camps, not far from her neighbourhood.
"A
group of people had come to collect old clothes for riot victims. I went with
them to the relief camps and saw the plight of the people. I decided then that I
will work for them,” she says. Noorjehan came to know about Aman Samudaya
through her friend Naseem.
It wasn’t easy. She had a six month old baby,
her husband Hamid resisted and her brother-in-law a Maulana (religious leader)
has severed all ties with her. "How can a woman of our house go out like
this," said Norrojehan said, remembering her brother-in-law’s words.
With time and patience, husband Hamid begun to
understand the importance of her peace work. After all, for six months of riots,
his rickshaw was off the road. He now accompanies Noorjehan if meetings are late
at night.
Noorjehan
took riot victims to police stations and since the riots has helped over 67
victims to file First Information Reports (FIRs). "We had received
training so I was not scared," she says.
Standing
firm
Twenty-seven-year old Laxmi Parmar of Kalol in
Panchmahals is a fellow peace volunteer. Like Noorjehan she faced resistance but
this time it was upper caste Hindu community leaders that Laxmi had to contend
with.
“They
did not want me to join the peace initiative and questioned my motives. Even my
brother objected saying that all the participants were Muslims.” But Laxmi
stood firm. “I told them that I would go ahead and nobody will be able to stop
me.”
Today, she works in Godhra and nearby areas
among riot survivors. "I help Hindus understand that Muslims are like us. They too
have one nose and two eyes. It is the same Sun that rises for them too. So why
the difference?" she says.
For her
friend, 38-year-old Bismillah Hussain Diwan, life has a new meaning since
working with Aman Samudaya and riot victims. Her husband had married again
when she was unable to conceive leaving her to stay with her parents.
"Seeing people’s woes, I realised that I have hardly faced any
trouble," she says.
The honorarium that she gets helps meet her
parents’ expenses. "Now even my husband says that people have high regard
for me," Bismillah says.
New
lease of life
Nazima Yusufkhan Pathan (52) of Ahmedabad and
Rashidabanu Abdulmunaf Ansari (38) of Godhra both feel lucky to have escaped
from the riots with their lives. They both joined the peace volunteers while
they were living in relief camps having fled the violence with their families.
A mother of two, Nazima, worked as a tutor
before the riots broke out. She and her two sons spent days in relief camps
after their house was looted and burnt. She quickly began working to help others
in the same situation.
Five years on, she is happy that her efforts
are helping women in her community to change for better. "They
are increasingly getting aware about their rights. They have also started saving
money," Nazima says proudly.
Rashidabanuand her husband had barely managed
to escape when the rioters attacked their home on March 2, 2002. "We did
not leave our house for three days – we thought we could stay put. But then
there was no option," she says.
Like
Nazima, she seized the opportunity to help other survivors in the relief camp
where she was staying. "I always tell people of both communities that
we should stay united so that events like 2002 never happen again," says
Rashidabanuand.
Growing
understanding
Shenaz Ansari is just 25. Pursuing her Masters
in Social Work, she divides her time between her studies and her work with riot
victims. In 2002 when final year graduation examinations were postponed because
of the violence, she began working in the relief camps.
"It
was an on-the-spot decision. I thought of going out and helping the victims. I
felt bad watching on television the attitude of policemen. I somehow wished that
there should be some power with us so that we could deal with the
situation," she says.
Like other young women volunteers, her father
initially resisted. "Going out and working was considered a taboo. I used
to cover my face under veil before riots and I do so today when I enter my
locality," Shenaz says.
She was
never allowed to go for picnics. But today she is fighting for the rights of
riot victims. "We are fighting
for compensation – similar to that of anti-Sikh riots – for the riot
victims. I also talk with the Dalits about how they were used against the
Muslims. They have begun to understand," she says.
Back home, the
family is also beginning to understand. They support her work now that she
shares her day’s experience with them.
Noorjehan,
Shenaz, Nazima, Rashidabanu or Laxmi – four women from different generations,
cities, classes and religions – share a common story of breaking cultural
shackles and giving life a new meaning, both for themselves and riot victims.
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